I'm so sick of people non-chalantly dropping the term “gaslighting” as if it’s a common, everyday little white lie or attempt to cover up a bad decision. But WE know better. We’ve experienced it at its true level, so let’s call it what it really is:

 

A complete mind-fuck.

 

It changes everything you thought you knew about yourself, your values, and your beliefs. I used to believe I had to be less than to be good enough. Then one single truth bomb sparked a revolution inside of me that stirred my voice and called forth the freedom to be "too much" once again.

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Someone I loved innocently shared a secret that led to a deep unraveling of the web of deceit and layers of abuse I was living under. But it wasn’t instant. I trusted what this person witnessed but began to question everything about myself: my gullibility, my ability to trust myself, even my sanity.

 

How could I not have seen this all along?

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But the little white lies over the years started to add up and make sense. The questions I was told I was crazy for asking finally had answers. The carefully crafted wall of isolation began to show cracks where I hid the pieces of me that were sacrificed in the name of fearful devotion. I was left with nothing but a shell of this fearless young woman who used to dream big—and this was not the dream Iife I envisioned for myself or my family.

So, I decided to take my fucking life back.

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But I had no idea how. No guide book. No awareness of who to turn to. Not even the hint of what a next step would look like. I just knew that first and foremost, I needed to leave and survive. And gratefully, I did.

I eventually realized I needed—WANTED—something more. Existing wasn’t enough. I yearned to thrive. Parts of me were awakening and I felt the pull back toward the woman I used to be. And in the years that followed, I earned my Master’s degree; became a self-published author; moved cross-country to California; and found (and freed) my inner badass.

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What if you knew it was okay for YOU to rise again?​

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​Even with responsibilities, external roadblocks, and years gone by--would you at least let your curiousity learn more? 

 

What if you could live in a world where the unjust voices of abuse died down so you can find, believe in, and trust yourself again? Would accept that it just might be possible to express your own “muchness” again without giving up your role as the glue that holds the pieces together for everyone else?

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​I didn’t just survive and thrive this experience just to keep my story to myself while others suffered. The emotional torture I endured has to mean something—and I want to give you the tools I didn’t have to take that powerful next step.

 

That’s why I’m committed to helping the Brazen Bettys of the world

to leave their old toxic life behind and embrace their power

to become their badass selves and take their fucking lives back. 

If you’re ready to find your inner badass again and reclaim your life, my F.I.R.E.-inspired journey will shift you from your current state of survival autopilot to thriving as your genuine self—one gentle step at a time.

You have the courage to accept that you are allowed to be who you are meant to be. Choose yourself this time and ignite your light. The path starts with one small step, and I’ll be beside you every step of the way.

In Sister Solidarity,

Jenny xo​

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Disclaimer: Although I am a credentialed life coach, I am not a licensed doctor, therapist, or medical professional. The information provided on this website and during our coaching sessions is for educational and informational purposes only, and it is not intended to be a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your physician or other qualified health provider with any questions you may have regarding a medical or mental health condition. Reliance on any information provided is solely at your own risk.
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